podcast obsessed // what i'm listening to

"I feel like everyone's podcasting and nobody's podlistening" was the quip accompanying a cartoon recently in The New Yorker. You can read that full article here, but there are definitely some valid points made.

As a recent podcast convert and newly obsessed listener, I understand why this article was written. It seems like everyone in their dog is podcasting (and to be honest, I've considered doing it myself). Even reality show stars are podcasting AND TV shows now have a podcast edition for each episode they air. Between streaming services and podcasting, its one more reason why TV (and prime time tv shows) is on their merry way out the door (ok, except This is Us and Life in Pieces for which I am LOYAL to!)

CONTRIBUTED // not your same old wall art

While social media often results in us spending an abundance of time looking at ridiculous things that have no real bearing on our lives (i.e. April The Giraffe), we can also discover some pretty wonderful things that can enhance our lives and, in this case, our walls.  The following are three incredible artists I was lucky to stumble upon on social media:

CONTRIBUTED // why you should be meditating

It's the start of a new year, a clean slate for self-improvement and the perfect time to finally start doing all the things we swore we would do last year (and likely the year before that too). Most new year's resolutions include becoming healthier, but we tend to focus on food and exercise while neglecting something very important – the health of our mind.

If you haven't meditated before, you're probably a little skeptical. You might think it's just for tree-hugging, kale-loving, free spirits. But would you think the same thing about someone who exercises by going for walks? No, you wouldn't. Meditation should be as common and as natural as going for a walk. And just like walking, meditation helps to clear your mind and it offers a plethora of benefits for your wellbeing.

my best purchases of 2017

Every year I look back at some of the products I've purchased. Some were impulse purchases, others were much-needed purchases and some were just a waste of my money.

Haven't we all been there?

This past year, I have been super conservative with how I've spent my money, but I've also indulged in some items I never thought I would have. Conservative mostly because I was not working and was home with our new son for the better half of the year, but we've also been forking out money for our wedding which is happening in April 2018 and we're finishing our basement.

BUT, there have been a few purchases which I have made that have changed my life! Some for vanity, some for function and others for down right NEED.

Here's the round up!

CONTRIBUTED // how my family of SIX can afford to travel around the world

I always get asked this question: how can you afford to travel with the entire family as often as you do?

The answer: we make traveling together a priority.

Traveling together is more important to us than driving a new car every few years or living in a big house. Those are two of the biggest sacrifices that we've made in order to be able to take our kids with us when we see the world. But, there are lots of little things we do day-to-day that also allow us to save our pennies. It's not magic and there is no perfect solution for all but for us, it's choosing our 'rather factors' over more frivolous items that can add up.

lessons i've learned in my first year of motherhood

It really is true that you can learn so many lessons from an infant. No matter how old you are.

We recently celebrated our son's 1st birthday. Yeah, we made it a year and he's still alive and well!

We survived the sleepless nights.

We survived (and attempted) breastfeeding. Ouch.

We kept him alive and healthy.

We nurtured him, loved him and made him the centre of our universe.

The things you do for your child but I wouldn't have it any other way. He came into our world exactly 367 days ago via c-section and life has never been the same since.

Even at 40 and 39 years old respectively, we have learned more from this little peanut than my 17+ years in business. Having a child is no joke (obvious statement, I know but I feel like I have to say this) because you not only have to be prepared physically, financially and in a solid relationship, but mentally. This was my toughest challenge. The mental exhaustion and challenges Grayson put me through each and every day, was a test and a testament that patience really is a virtue.

in good company // issue no. 14 // john ounpuu

Who: John Ounpuu, Co-founder of Modern Craft
What: strategic savant, creative by default, marketing zealot, thinker, doer, dreamer
Where: Vancouver, BC
Follow: @obviousness

Most professionals who work in an agency exude this electric, how ya doin, have-you-seen-my-work type of personality. Their all about the awards, the showcase, the thrill of poaching and winning clients. I should know, because I've been there. Twice. 

John however, is a little more subtle than that. He's the strong silent type, and no that isn't an insult. It's probably one of the best qualities he has, aside from his talent. That talent is strategy and he has the chops to prove it. His resume is remarkable but his work is even more impressive, because I am lucky to have been on the receiving end as both a colleague at Blast Radius and as a potential client when I was with Browns Restaurant Group. This guy knows his shit, but he's as humble as humble pie.

CONTRIBUTED // when you find yourself at the hospital with your kids

I'm writing this as I sit in the hospital with my six-month-old son. We've been here for two days and they've told us we'll be here for a few more. What started as a tiny blister on his finger two weeks ago is now a staph infection that's gotten into his blood, requiring him to receive antibiotics through an IV.

I feel like a horrible mother. How could I have let this happen to him? I've been told by two doctors that there is no way to know exactly when, where or how this happened and to not blame myself, but mom guilt thrives in a situation like this.

you-can't-just-eat-one peanut butter bars

Who doesn't love peanut butter and chocolate together? I've definitely been guilty of dipping a spoon in BOTH a jar of Nutella and THEN a jar pf peanut butter. Gulp. No judgement.

Our contributor Jill Hatch is here to share her amazingly delicious recipe for peanut butter bars so you can now make this sweet treat to have at home or for when company shows up. And hopefully, you make them last longer than a day, because I am warning you now, they ARE DEADLY DELICIOUS!

in good company // issue no. 13 // krysta masciale

Who: Krysta Masciale, Co-founder of Big Deal Branding
What: brand therapist, career-driven mom, motherlucker, bad ass
Where: Los Angeles, CA
Follow: @krystamasciale

It takes a marketer to know a marketer. It's like we have this marketing radar and when we spot creativity, we make a beeline across a crowded room just to strike up a conversation and be inspired.

Wait, back up here. I've actually never even met Krysta, but I felt this instant connection to her. We know each other because we're both contributors to a raw and uncensored parenting blog called Motherlucker. We're 2 of the original 10 that were chosen to share our stories as mothers, professionals and super women trying to survive one day at a time. All shapes and sizes, all different situations, all fascinating stories. That's what a Motherlucker is.

FOOD // dreamy, creamy mushroom soup

There are two soups that I will always order on a menu when the craving hits.

French onion soup and mushroom soup. Homemade of course.

See, homemade is very important to me because I don't care how big of a fan of Campbell's soup you are, its from a can (and screw convenience sometimes, I mean come on! If you're a full blown adult, make some god damn homemade soup for once in your life!). [end rant]

Nothing beats the flavour, texture and freshness of homemade soup. Oh, and did I mention most soup is tremendously easy to make? You heard it here first. No word of a lie, most soups are roasted veggies, tossed in stock with a plethora of herbs, cooked, then pureed. That's it!

CONTRIBUTED // find direction by figuring out how you feel

I just heard this great quote from Steve Jobs:

You can't connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future.

In my life, the dots have always made sense looking backwards. But trusting that where you are now, and that this is all happening for a reason that will make sense at some point in the future is a lot harder to get behind, particularly if you're at a crossroads and the path forward is no longer clear to you.

Here's the good news: even if you don't know how or where you are going in your life, there are some things that you can know, and that is how you want to feel in your life. And knowing how you want to feel can be a great starting point in giving your life direction.

TRAVEL // honolulu, hawaii

My second travel destination feature is one that has slowly become a place near and dear to my heart.

Honolulu, Hawaii is a tropical island like no other, with all the hustle and bustle of a growing city (and boy is this city growing!) but also has those secret hidden gems that are quiet, serene and breathtaking.

My guncles have been vacationing in Hawaii for around 30 years and a few decades ago they decided to make it their second home, buying up real estate and living there for 6 months of the year. They have developed quite a life over there, meeting some amazing people, hiking the island far and wide, and immersing themselves in the rich community that has welcomed them with open arms.

So you can imagine that I have been fortunate over the years to stay with them when I venture to this tropical island and most recently, we took our little peanut Grayson to visit them when he was just 3.5 months old.

FOOD // the only red pasta sauce you'll ever need to make.

Here's a little story about this magnificently, tasty, smooth, slightly spicy, addictive pasta sauce I once made.

But first, let me tell you that I wish I had made a giant VAT of it to freeze. There I said it, the sauce was that good!

Not to mention, the ingredients were SO SIMPLE and tasta....however, a bit laborious to make, not that I'm complaining.

I first stumbled upon Scott Conant's Spaghetti Al Pomodoro sauce on Cupcakes & Cashmere. The blogger (Emily Schuman) fell in love with this chef's sauce years ago, only to discover that he resurfaced at LA's new The Ponte restaurant. She was happy to discover that her fave Spaghetti Al Pomodoro made the menu and she was on a mission to get the secret recipe (note: they serve it on their brunch menu, not the dinner menu).